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Finding Solitude in Today’s World

By February 10, 2022Conscious Living

The definition of solitude is “being alone.” The word also means peace and quiet.

It’s a place where you can be by yourself with your thoughts, or take time for yourself in order to recharge. It doesn’t have to mean being in an empty room. You can find solitude when you’re out on a walk, sitting in a park, or just taking a break from the world around you. The benefits of spending time alone are many! For starters, it allows us to reflect on our thoughts and feelings without any distractions from the outside world – no cell phones ringing, no email notifications popping up every few minutes…just pure contemplation.

Spending time alone also helps us focus better and concentrate more effectively; we get into the zone more easily. It also boosts creativity, because we can let our imagination run free without worrying that someone will judge us. And you might come up with some awesome ideas! You don’t have to go completely off the grid, either – just putting your phone down will open up doors once you finish this article. Here are the points we hit on:

  • The benefits of spending time alone
  • The difference between solitude and isolation
  • Meditation as a solitude practice
  • What studies show about solitude
  • What to do with your solitude

The benefits of spending time alone

Solitude can also help us to follow our intuition more. When we’re constantly surrounded by noise and distractions, it can be difficult to hear our inner voice. But when we’re alone, we can focus on our thoughts and feelings without any outside interference. This can allow us to connect with our intuition more easily, and make better decisions based on our intuition rather than our emotions or logic.

Connect with your intuition and allow yourself to receive guidance from within. Trust that you will be led in the right direction, and have faith in yourself and your abilities.

Solitude can also help us to reflect on our thoughts and feelings without any distractions from the outside world. It’s hard to avoid distractions when we’re constantly surrounded by people and technology.

The difference between solitude and isolation

Solitude means being alone with self-awareness coming first. Isolation is feeling or being cut off from others. Solitude is seen as a positive choice, while isolation often feels forced or is due to an underlying mental health issue.

Solitude allows for reflection and creativity, while isolation can lead to feelings of paranoia and sadness. When you’re overstimulated by others, solitude aids in regaining control of your emotions. It allows you to take a step back from others’ thoughts and feelings. Allowing you to examine your own without any outside distractions. Without solitude, it’s difficult to judge yourself objectively and have a sense of self-awareness.

In solitude, you can focus and concentrate better, which leads to improved productivity, creativity, happiness, and positivity. On the other hand, isolation is a great source of stress for everyone. Isolation leads to feeling cut off from others in a negative way.

In solitude, you’ll have a better grip on your overall emotional and mental well-being. It’s a time for remaining mindful of your thoughts and feelings.

Honoring solitude consistently and checking in with yourself honestly brings more mindful thinking. This means you’re more likely to reach out to others when you need help or support rather than trying to deal with the problem by yourself.

Meditation as a solitude practice

When you’re overwhelmed, you’ll probably hear people recommend meditation. Meditation is a popular practice of solitude that aims to relax your nervous system, regulate your emotions, and let your mind wander without distraction. It allows you to take a break from the outside world and focus on yourself.

Meditation can be a great way to have better control of your thoughts and emotions. This practice over a consistent period of time will lead to improved mental health in the long run.

Guided meditations are our favorite, join our Insight Timer meditation group! Or learn how to begin your own meditation practice here.

What studies show about solitude

According to a study published in the journal Perspectives on Psychological Science, spending time alone can have a whole range of benefits for your mental health. The study found that solitude can help you to focus and concentrate better, boost your creativity, and reduce stress levels. It can also allow you to reflect on your thoughts and feelings without any distractions from the outside world. So if you’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed out, take some time for yourself and reap the many benefits of solitude!

The study also found that it can help you to manage negative emotions, such as anger and sadness. It can also make it easier for you to feel positive emotions, such as happiness and excitement. Being alone allows you some time away from other people so that you can consider your thoughts and feelings without worrying about social pressure. Spending a few minutes alone every day can improve your mental health and make you less irritable, the study suggests.

The results of this study aren’t entirely surprising. Solitude can also lead to psychiatric disorders if one isn’t self-aware of the implications or not properly played out. After all, solitude has always been closely linked to creativity. And creativity is linked to chaos as well as brilliance. For example, many artists choose solitude to allow their ideas to flow freely but this can turn to isolation if not careful. When it comes to health, alone time has been closely linked to mindfulness, too.

To have solitude and find this peace, you don’t have to necessarily be all alone. Meditation is just one of the ways to honor your solitude. You can recapture your self-awareness but simply sitting back and taking some time to yourself.

What to do with your time alone

What would you do if you took some time for yourself? How would you reap the many benefits of solitude? If you have trouble being alone in your daily life, here are a few tips:

Have a ‘me-time’ ritual

Practice yoga or meditation, read a book, take a bath, or listen to some relaxing music while going for a drive. Take time to enjoy your solitude and give gratitude.

Think about solitude as a privilege

Sometimes we take being alone for granted, putting ourselves last in order to be there for others. Or to put ourselves out there and overcommit ourselves to too much. Sometimes we feel obligated when life is all about connection. But remember that solitude is a privilege and something that should be valued as a reset button. Don’t take it for granted and use it wisely.

Practice mindfulness

Mindfulness can be incredibly beneficial for our mental health and regulating emotions. Spending a few minutes each day getting quiet, focusing on your senses, and the present moment.

Create an ‘inner-working’ playlist

Music that will help you to relax, focus and heal. Throw some good empowering podcasts in there… Have a productive cleaning sesh or go outside while you listen! Music has a huge impact on our mood and is a known dopamine booster. All of these things can help regulate your emotions and enhance your mood.

Take a solitude vacation

Sometimes, we need to take time off from our busy lives and recharge. Try going on your own vacation to help you reset your mind and body. You might like to go somewhere close by or somewhere further afield – either way, you’ll be able to enjoy quality time without the distractions of your everyday life.

Seek peace in nature

It is also the perfect setting to find solitude. Walk by the water, go on a hike by yourself, take the time to sit in the park and watch others go by, or simply look up to see the sky. Nature acts as a powerful medicine for our overall well-being and mental health.

The next time you feel yourself overthinking, overstressing, being overwhelmed – remember you may just need some alone time to recharge. Solitude is the answer. By bringing self-awareness into the picture, alone time doesn’t have to be boring, tedious, or lead to isolation. Self-awareness provides us access to our solitude and it is a proven and positive source for our mental health.

Check out more on solitude:

The Science of Happiness Podcast | Episode 75: A Cure for Loneliness (Greater Good Magazine)

Academy of Ideas’ video on the fear of solitude and the psychology behind it:

Below are some great quotes about solitude!

“Solitude best suits me, but I am never lonely when alone.” – Louis L’Amour

“Privacy is essential to the achievement of solitude, but solitude is fatal to intimacy.” – Irvine Welsh

“There is no solitude greater than the suffering of a mind in doubt” – Seneca

“I like trees because they seem more resigned to the way they have to live than other things do.” – Willa Cather